Thomas William Oldham (23 Aug 1945 - 27 Oct 2025)

Dad I can’t put into words how broken I feel. I cant believe Tuesday is the day we say our final goodbyes. Dad I was never ready for this day you was my shoulder to cry on always made things feel better. Dad always stay close by. I hope we all do you proud. Until we meet again love you all the world and more. Jackie xx 💔💔💔

Tom what can I say , I have fond memories of the long lads weekends spent in the caravan at Skegness,me and Michael, you and your brother then Tony and various others over the years . From the the minute we all got on train at nottingham, then straight in the first pub that we passed once we got there it was NO STOP LAUGTER usually caused by you taking the Pi** out of others. GREAT TIMES I'll never forget,!!!

I'm going to miss you so much Dad, I'm going to miss you taking the piss out of me, calling me lurky, moaning that I'd left the big light on and how many watts that was burning, for blocking the fire, for calling me a 'shocking arsehole' or telling me to turn off that 'shite' when I was playing my music. You had the best sense of humour, it was an honour to be in your company when you were taking the piss. You were always there for a chat, advice, help, anything I ever needed. Days when I'd feel miserable, after just five minutes on the phone hearing your upbeat 'hello!' would instantly cheer me up. I feel completely heartbroken writing this, but I don't have anything but wonderful memories, they make me smile everyday and what a privilege that is and you gave me that Dad.I love you. Tight lines xxx

Tom
I could not have asked for a better father in law ♥️ your strength and humour I will not forget, from meeting you 35 years ago until the end. Thank you for your wonderful son Tony, who I get to call my husband, and for helping him be the man he is today. You have taught him well I say. You are going to missed so much and I will cherish the memories I have of you. Rest in peace . Lisa xx

Dad! I honestly don’t know what to say! You taught me so much in life but you never prepared me for this moment without you! I miss you so much it hurts! You’re in my thoughts all day everyday! You may not be here but no one will ever take away my memories and the good times we shared! There was so many it’s hard to pick one! I would go as far to say every time we were together it was a laugh something you never lost till the end! I love you soo much dad the day you left I really did lose apart of me that I will never get back ! Love you dad life’s going to be so hard without you but I will be the best version of myself everyday if I can be half the man you were I would be happy! The best thing anyone could ever say to me is - your just like your dad ❤️❤️❤️🥰

Dadad what can I say im completely heartbroken 💔. What a man I worshipped the ground u walked on , ur my ideal they dont make men like u anymore. I hope I can do u proud and try and be like u in life. U was more that just a grandad to me and piece of me died with u that day. I will never forget u and there won't be a day that I won't be thinking about you love you so much til we meet again rest easy u beautiful xx💗💗

Uncle Tom can't believe you are no longer here I'll will always remember the kind and funny man you was I'm going to miss your chuckle and you calling everyone a shocking you know what.
You will be missed and loved by us all R.I.P uncle Tommy teeth love Diane, Mike, Liara & Rune

Uncle Tom, I cannot believe that are no longer with us. You was always so kind funny and will miss our chats. You was loved by us all and will be missed dearly. To me you will always be my Uncle Tommy Teeth, love you always Keri, Chris, Ryan & Kieran xxxx