Helga Donlan (6 Aug 1933 - 19 Oct 2025)

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Location
Southend Crematorium South Chapel Sutton Road Southend on Sea SS2 5PX
Date
20th Nov 2025
Time
10.30am
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In loving memory of Helga Wilhelmine Donlan who sadly passed away on 19th October 2025.
Helga, my mum was one of a kind. A strong woman who never feared to speak her mind. She came from humble beginnings in Germany and was one of 5 children. War years in Germany away from the rumblings of action were something she talked about. She loved living in the the little village of Quakenbruk and all that life offered her.
She met and married her first husband and came to the UK and went on to have my sister Evelyn, who has sadly passed.
On the day she left the divorce court she met my Dad Harry and rest is a love story.
Mum worked in Budgens, Waitrose and finally as a Home help which she loved .
Dad became ill and she looked after him till he passed.
Mum had a few good friends but all now gone. She was a fairly private woman, and found expression of love difficult at times,but she did love all of her family.

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Today our thoughts are with Helga's family and friends. May her funeral bring a sense of peace to all those who miss her.
Sending strength and comfort

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I was kindly invited to Helga’s Birthday lunch.

I was kindly invited to Helga’s Birthday lunch.

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Chris Fielder wrote

I’m so glad I got to know Helga, to share our stories and spend time together. I’ll miss my visits and usually a telling off for bringing flowers or cakes x (Chris No. 7)

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Chris & Martin OKeeffe wrote

Helga, you were one of a kind and we loved you very much. We were always very kind to us, especially our little grandson, Flynn. We always enjoyed having you over for birthday bbq's in the summer. We love you and miss you. Rest in Peace 🙏 xx

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Havens Hospices wrote

Thank you for thinking of us at this sad time. We are sending you strength and comfort on the loss of dear Helga x

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Michelle McHugh wrote

Helga was a lovely lady and became a good friend to me the past few years . I will miss and her stories of her life growing up in Germany . She always told me what she thought and gave good advice . I will always have fond memories of such a dear lady . Xx

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Michelle McHugh donated £10 in memory of Helga

I’ve only known Helga for the past few years but she became a good friend to me . I loved hearing her stories from the war and about her German village where she lived and was bombed out twice . She was a lovely lady , full of life and character and always told me what she thought and gave me honest advice . I will treasure happy memories of a dear lady always . Xxx

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Darren Lewis donated in memory of Helga

Sadly missed but never forgotten x

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David & Ulrike Nelson donated £10 in memory of Helga

God Bless you Helga!♥️

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Enjoying her lunch with mum ❤️❤️

Enjoying her lunch with mum ❤️❤️

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Imogen Lewis donated £10 in memory of Helga

For you grandma

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For you grandma xx

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Tante Helga was one beautiful lady inside and out.Gone but never ever forgotten.💔💔

Tante Helga was one beautiful lady inside and out.Gone but never ever forgotten.💔💔

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  • My beautiful Tante Helga i am going to miss you so much.Our Daily chat's and laughter over the phone. You telling me off for making Your boy work too much.I will miss you for ever 😪😪I love you and will never forget you xxx

    Posted by Ulrike on 23/10/2025 Report abuse
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Helga enjoying her 90th birthday lunch ❤️

Helga enjoying her 90th birthday lunch ❤️

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  • Aww thats lovely Andrea

    Posted by Linda on 23/10/2025 Report abuse
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