Dorothy May Titley (11 Jan 1922 - 1 Oct 2025)

In loving memory of Dorothy May Titley who sadly passed away on 1st October 2025. Dottie, Mum, Auntie Dot, Grandma or Dottie-Dot-Dot. Loved and cherished by those she knew well and always fondly remembered by those she encountered. Such fun and vibrancy. A beautiful lady in every sense.

Born on the 11th January 1922 to parents Mary and Walter North. Dottie was the youngest of four children, with brothers Eric and Wal and sister Rene. Dottie enjoyed strong relationships with her siblings, family, friends and neighbours throughout her lifetime. An exceptional and much loved Aunty. Good company with her many poems, wit and warmth.

Marrying her sweetheart Bernie on the 26th September 1942 when she was 20 years of age. The couple welcoming visitors to their home. The flat above the Hollywood Hat Shop in Market Street. Their abode in Two Gates where the couple enjoyed the company of numerous animals, including Archie the pig. Many years at the Bungalow on Ferrers Road. The tree topiary, summer house and table laid out on the lawn. Multitude of poems and pictures on the walls. Dottie and Bernard, a devoted union, always gentle, loving and reassuringly routined. The tandem bike, crosswords in bed, holidays to Blackpool and Eastbourne.

Blessed by the arrival of her only son Graham in 1945, Dottie loved motherhood and the company of children. Often enjoying this with her siblings, nieces and nephews. The two boys Graham and Geoff often playing together with their contrasting heads of hair.

The family extended further when Graham married Joyce. Dottie spending many an hour an occasion with the family of the bride. Dottie loved dancing, singing, poetry and more and would light up the room with her smile and cheeky giggle. A very special and ever present mum to Joyce and Graham and Grandma to Lindsey and Robert. She would make up stories, share treats and provide many laughs.

Throughout her lifetime Dottie experienced huge loss. Brother Wal, Grandson Robert. Devasted by the loss of her dear Bernie in 1994 and her precious son Graham some five years later. This tested her resolve but she showed great strength, turned to her Christian faith and went on many outings with her family and friends.

Trips out with Kathleen and Maurice, the Arbouretum being a firm favourite. Days out to see bluebell woods and church with Sheila, Will and Bet. Family visits with Cynth, Sheree and Mick, Louise and Tony, to name a few of her favourite past times. Many of which are documented in her photographs, diaries and poems. Dottie loved being a great grandma and spent time singing with Harry and Emily when Justin popped in for his daily call.

Dottie's journey with dementia started many years ago. At first she was supported at home. She benefitted from many years of conscientious care and support from Joyce and other family members. Her condition worsened some four years ago and it was necessary for her to move to residential care. Dementia is a cruel condition which resulted in us losing the Dottie we loved time and time again. Despite her frailty she kept her cheekiness and kind disposition. Well liked by the professionals that cared for her at Spring Tree Care Home. Her heart beating strong until the age of 103 years and 10 months., testament to the quality of care she received, for which we as a family remain indebted.

Dottie was unique, quirky, and loving. A lady who will always be remembered in our hearts and memories. We will never forget how you made us feel: uplifted, joyful, loved, appreciated. Thank you Dottie. May you rest in peace. You lit up the room for so many, we light a candle for you now. X