Adriana Swilczewska (8 Oct 2005 - 22 Aug 2025)

Funeral Director

Location
Medway Crematorium Robin Hood Lane (Upper) Chatham ME5 9QU
Date
3rd Oct 2025
Time
3pm
Open map

Print

In Loving Memory of Adriana

Ada passed away unexpectedly on 22nd August 2025, aged just 19. She was a daughter, a sister, and a friend who inspired everyone who knew her with her courage, kindness, and love for life.
When Ada was diagnosed with epilepsy, she chose not to let it define her. Her doctor once told her, “Epilepsy is like a mountain. You can choose to climb it, or you can stay at the bottom and not live life.” Ada chose to climb. Every day, she faced fear, anxiety, and uncertainty, yet she embraced life with joy, curiosity, and adventure. She even wrote a book about her journey, "Sparky Brain: Epileptic Tips and Stories", pouring her heart into it in the hope of helping others.
Ada had a remarkable gift for noticing beauty in the world – in poetry, in crystals she collected endlessly, in the stars she loved to gaze at, in flowers and buzzing bees. She delighted in the smallest details, from picking up chestnuts along the way and carrying them in her pocket, to holding a tiny frog in her hand. Without even trying, she inspired others to see the world’s wonder through her eyes.
Travel was another great love of Ada’s. From an early age, she travelled widely with her parents, discovering new places and cultures that shaped her adventurous spirit. Later, she explored the world with her friend Jesper, and eventually set out on her own. By 19, she had already seen more of the world than many do in a lifetime.
She also found strength in martial arts. Through judo and jiu-jitsu, she became more resilient and tougher. Later, she discovered a passion for pole dancing, which gave her not only a strong core and graceful strength but also a sense of confidence and freedom that she carried with pride.
Most of all, Ada was a devoted big sister. She adored Emilia and Laura, always sharing her knowledge, reading with them, showing them movies she loved, taking them out for lunch, and taking care of them while guiding them with care and attention. She was like a “mothering” figure to her friends – always checking in, making sure everyone was cared for, and bringing warmth, laughter, and support wherever she went.
At the University of Glasgow, Ada was studying psychology, driven by her dream of becoming a psychologist to help children with autism, a goal rooted in her deep empathy and passion for others. Her intelligence, compassion, and unique spirit left a lasting mark on everyone who knew her.
Ada lived with extraordinary courage. She inspired us all to live fully, and to climb our own mountains. Though her life was far too short, her light will remain forever in the hearts of those who loved her.

If you would like to support the family in covering costs and helping us organise Ada’s funeral, you can kindly donate at:
www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/ada-s

Steve Vidler lit a candle
Lukasz Lulis posted a picture
Thank you all who were with us at Adriana’s farewell — both in person and in thought.

Thank you all who were with us at Adriana’s farewell — both in person and in thought.

Report
Comment on this photo
Elyse, Will & Jude x Challis lit a candle
Hannah Garvey lit a candle
Hannah Garvey wrote

I am beyond heartbroken to hear of Ada’s passing. She was positivity embodied and loved deeply - she loved her studies, she loved Byron, she loved her friends and her family (especially her sisters). She was everything you could have wished for, not only in a student but in a person. She was kind and patient and would always be so supportive of the students in Byron, in particular those in By3. I wish I could be there today to pay my respects, however I will light a candle later today to reflect and remember you by. Sending so much love to all of your friends and family.

Report
Comment on this message
Spandan Rai is attending the funeral
Bevily Gurwe is attending the funeral
Bevily Gurwe lit a candle
Stephanie Gurwe lit a candle
Lauren French wrote

Ada was without a doubt a kind, funny and caring individual. I am so incredibly sad to hear of her passing and my condolences go to her family and friends in this difficult time. Thank you Ada for everything that you brought to the world and to my classroom. You will be truly missed.

Report
Comment on this message
Lauren French lit a candle
Jennifer Martensz lit a candle
Indeesh Hothi is attending the funeral
Ewelina Samchalk lit a candle
Ewelina Samchalk wrote

We are heartbroken about Ada. We’d just shared such a lovely summer together —laughing, catching up, and watching everyone reconnect. She had that rare, bright way of looking at the world that made you believe things could get better. We used to joke that Ada would solve everyone’s problems with her psychology degree she was working on and the world would be amazing. It’s so hard to understand that she’s not with us now, that she’s chosen to be with the angels in heaven. The weight of this is heavy for our whole family. Deepest condolences to Julia, Lukasz, Laura, Emilka, rest of the family and friends! We are thinking of you all!

Report
Comment on this message
Ewelina Samchalk lit a candle
Luke Lulis posted a picture
I love You forever

I love You forever

Report
Comment on this photo
Tomasz Pupel is attending the funeral
Prachi Panchal lit a candle
Prachi Panchal is attending the funeral
Darcey Dias lit a candle
Maddison Hansford lit a candle
Vanessa Gamanlal wrote

A few years ago, I taught the ever so sparkly Ada for IB English Lang/Lit and she lit up the room each time she entered. Ada's sarcastic humour was always welcomed and so were her insightful comments about the texts we were exploring.
My deep condolences to Ada's family and friends. Sending love, light, thoughts and prayers xxx

Report
Comment on this message
Vanessa Gamanlal lit a candle
Maisie Hayward-Langmaid is attending the funeral
Marta Husebø lit a candle
J, K & L Maile lit a candle
Shelley Bilong is attending the funeral
Gina Collis lit a candle
Gina Collis wrote

I enjoyed having the opportunity to teach Ada lower down in the school. She was sparky, inquisitive, questioning and bright even then. Thank you for bringing that energy to the class and for being a lovely student. My thoughts are with Ada's family; I am so sorry for the loss of Ada, she was very special.

Report
Comment on this message