Barry Patching (4 Jun 1962 - 4 Sep 2025)

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Barry

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Location
Medway Crematorium Robin Hood Lane Chatham ME5 9QU
Date
10th Oct 2025
Time
2pm
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This page has been set up in loving memory of my Dad, Barry Patching who sadly passed away on 4th September 2025, aged 63 years.

For those who knew my Dad, you will appreciate that he was a hard worker, massive on music, and a huge fan of West Ham and Chatham Town FC. Sadly on the day he died, we didn’t get the chance to say goodbye.

I would like to thank friends, family and colleagues who have been there to offer their support to my mum and I and for their kindness in what has been a very difficult time for the family.

Donations in Barry's memory would be gratefully received for the 'British Heart Foundation' and may be made online via the link on this page. We have chosen this charity as it was identified via his cause of death that he had a pulmonary embolism and an enlarged heart.

His funeral is on Friday 10th October at the Medway crematorium at 2pm followed by a wake at Chatham town FC bar from 3.15pm. Only family flowers on the day, so if you was intending on buying flowers - please donate the money to this charity instead so we can support this charities amazing work to prevent this happening to other families.

Thank you 💙⚒️

STEVE NAR donated £50 in memory of Barry

We had not worked together very long however, the short time we did it was an absolute pleasure. Barry you will be greatly missed!

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Maria Goodall donated £15 in memory of Barry

Always remembered fondly, sadly missed. Rest In Peace Barry. Love Maria Xxx💙💙💙

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Susan Hall donated £20 in memory of Barry

RIP Barry, definitely taken to soon love from Sue and Tony

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Chris and Pat edwards donated £30 in memory of Barry

With love x

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Simon Rogers donated in memory of Barry

Thinking of you

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Hellen Vamplew donated £20 in memory of Barry

With love to Dot and Tom so very sorry for your loss of a true gentleman x

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Wendy Wellings donated £50 in memory of Barry

Sleep Tight Barry
One of the good ones taken too soon!
Never Forgotten
Thank You for the Laughs Baz
Wendy & Mike x

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Amanda Walklett lit a candle
Alan Walklett wrote

Hammer - some friendships are forged in the fire of youth and Hammer was that kind of friend. The memories we made..though time passes and paths may diverge, the bond we built will never fade. Here's to Hammer, the legend, forever proud to call you my friend.

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Charlie Miller donated £20 in memory of Barry

Thank you for everything baz. You'll be missed. Charlie lillie and florenxe

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  • Thank you for everything baz. Love charlie, lillie and florence x

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Nic Stow Eaves donated £20 in memory of Barry

Always made me laugh, many happy memories from watching West Ham. RIP ⚒️

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Amanda Boyd donated £10 in memory of Barry

Thinking of you all.

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Cindy Smith donated £30 in memory of Barry

RIP Barry, we loved you and we will miss you. So sorry you were taken way too soon.
With love from Cindy & Phil xx

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Joe Clarkson donated £50 in memory of Barry

Worked with baz for the last 9 years he was an absolute gentleman and really good friend. R.I.P Baz till we meet about mate

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andrea L donated £10 in memory of Barry

Sending love to you all

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Anthony Brown donated £30 in memory of Barry

He will be sorely missed by all that knew him.

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Irene Lyon donated £15 in memory of Barry
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Phil Brown donated £20 in memory of Barry

Barry was a pleasure to work. Top bloke.

From all the team at WJ Timber Treatments

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Cindy Crancher donated £40 in memory of Barry

It was a privilege to have worked with Barry, he did a fantastic job for Scotline and I will miss him very much. Barry will be sorely missed by his many friends, customers and colleagues.
My deepest condolences to Tommy and family.
from Cindy Crancher

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Barbara Fuller donated £50 in memory of Barry

We will miss you very much you were a good work colleague and friend and still can't believe you gone xx

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Daisy Cowell donated £20 in memory of Barry

We will be thinking of you all. Lots of love, Daisy, Will and Posy xxx

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Hannah Brunt donated £20 in memory of Barry
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