Pamela Eileen Acott (21 Mar 1936 - 10 Jul 2025)

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Pamela Eileen

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Location
Southend Crematorium 654 Sutton Road Southend on Sea SS2 5PX
Date
14th Aug 2025
Time
3pm
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Location
Saxon Hall 5 Aviation Way Souhend on Sea SS2 6UN
Date
14th Aug 2025
Time
4.15pm

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In loving memory of Pamela Eileen Acott who sadly passed away on 10th July 2025. She leaves behind her husband, Tony of 69 years, plus her three children (Toni, Lyn & Trevor); five grandchildren (Tim, Gary, Mark, Lauren & Emily); and three great grandchildren (Sam, Kasia & Florence).

We’d love for friends and family to join us as we say goodbye to Pam. It would mean so much to have you with us, both at the funeral and at the reception afterwards.

The funeral service will take place at Southend Crematorium (West Chapel) at 3pm on 14th August 2025. Then afterwards at Saxon Hall . Address details are bottom right. We would be grateful if you could let us know if you are coming.

If you’re not able to be there in person, the service will be livestreamed so you can still be part of it from wherever you are. Here are the joining details:
https://watch.obitus.com
Username: lure7105
Password: 820302

Instead of flowers, if you’d like to make a donation, we’re supporting the British Heart Foundation in Pam's memory. At the end of her life she faced a number of heart-related health issues, and supporting this charity feels especially meaningful to us. There is a link at the top right of this page, and there will also be a donation box at the service.

Many thanks

On behalf of Alan & Rose Bradley Smee donated £20 in memory of Pamela

Happy Memories from Cousin Alan & Rose xxx

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Del Smee donated £40 in memory of Pamela

Thanks for being the best Mother-in-Law over all these years! You took all my pranks in good spirits and we had a lot of laughs! RIP Pam xxx

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Paul & natalie Carty donated £20 in memory of Pamela

Pam such a special lady, loved dearly by her family and friends ❤️

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Helen Squires donated £10 in memory of Pamela

Sending love

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Maureen Smee lit a candle
Maureen Smee wrote

Remembering all the happy family get together celebrations you will be sadly missed by all your lovely family 💞R I P Pam xxx

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Kate Broad donated £20 in memory of Pamela
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Mandy Rice donated £20 in memory of Pamela

Will always remember you dancing and laughing Pam x RIP X love Mandy , Andy and family x

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Hev n Phil Mason wrote

RIP dear Pam x you were such a big part of your families lives . You will be missed xxx Thinking of Tony and those left behind x will be doing our best to attend your Funeral to officially send you off on your journey . Especially thinking of my lovely school friend Lyn x sending love to all family and friends x

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Christine & Graeme Wilson wrote

Rest in Peace Pam

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Happy memories from 69 years ago from your bridesmaid on the left.

Happy memories from 69 years ago from your bridesmaid on the left.

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Christine Wilson donated £50 in memory of Pamela
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Keith Shelton donated £30 in memory of Pamela

We send our love and best wishes to Pamela's family and friends. Think of you all at this sad time. Love all the Sheltons

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Jacqueline Fowler donated £30 in memory of Pamela

Rest in peace Aunty Pam, with love from Jacqueline, Jamie and Nick xxxx

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Jean & Mel Filby donated £50 in memory of Pamela

In loving memory of my dear cousin Pam - I will miss our little chats. You will be deeply missed and forever remembered.
With Love
Jean & Mel xx

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  • Dear Jean & Mel, thank you so much for this very generous donation xxx Mum told me the day before that she'd spoken to you recently. Lots of love to you both xxx Lyn xxx

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Rest in peace Nan, I wish I could pick up the phone and speak to you right now. Love and miss you so so much xxx

Rest in peace Nan, I wish I could pick up the phone and speak to you right now. Love and miss you so so much xxx

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RIP Nan ❤️ I’ll miss you so much. Love you forever xxx

RIP Nan ❤️ I’ll miss you so much. Love you forever xxx

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Jevan Frake donated £20 in memory of Pamela
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Jevan Frake wrote

Pam will be very sadly missed by us all , It was a privilege to have met and got to know you. Xxx

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