Elaine Webb (6 Dec 1940 - 15 Aug 2024)

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The Most Holy Trinity Dockhead London SE1 2BS
Date
16th Sep 2024
Time
10am
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Greenwich Cemetery Well Hall Rd London SE9 6UA
Date
16th Sep 2024
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Salt Quay 163 Rotherhithe Street London SE16 5QU
Date
16th Sep 2024
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1.30pm

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In loving memory of Elaine Webb who sadly passed away on 15th August 2024
Mum was born in Guys hospital in 1940. She grew up in Lynton road where she lived with her mum, dad, (a butcher working in Tower Bridge Road), and her brother who was at least 10 years older than her. She suffered the loss of her father at the age of 11 years of age and spent almost 2 years in hospital suffering from diphtheria as a young child. Despite this she had a happy childhood and often joined her mum when she played the piano to earn money for the family in local pubs. She lived next door to her childhood friend Pam Draper until they both met and married 2 brothers, my dad Michael and my Uncle Jimmy Webb. Meaning Pam and my mum have been a close part of each others life the whole of their lives.
She married my dad when she was 20 years of age. they initially lived with my nan in Lynton Road in 2 rooms but got their first home a prefab near Rotherhithe Street, shortly after my brother Michael was born in 1963. Her family was complete when I came along in 1968. We lived in various places along Lynton Road until she settled in Hambley House in 1978.
My mum had many jobs mostly working as a telephonist for various companies starting at the age of 15. She loved this job and would be known for how she could switch out of her Bermondsey twang into he posh telephone voice.
She suffered the tragic loss of my father at the age of 50, when he was only 54, one week short of their 30th wedding anniversary. This period of time was really difficult for her as shortly after she lost her dear mum , aged 92 followed by her close cousin, brother and sister-in-law. Despite this she tried to remain positive and took on the lead for guiding our family over the next few years. She gave me away and did a speech at my wedding to my husband Joe in 1993. The joy really came back into her life when her first grandchild Joel was born in 1995 followed by Eleni in 1999. She was a fun nan and loved spending the school holidays taking her grandchildren on days out with their school friend Sam and his mum Vera. She was so proud of her grandchildren and their academic achievements telling anyone and everyone she knew about how clever they were.
My mum's main focus was always her family. She was a worrier and always , always, wanted to know where you were, what time you got there and that you were safe. She lived with my brother, who she loved to care for. I spoke to my mum everyday, she always had a listening ear for me, and would be a soundboard and a shoulder to cry on in times of trouble. Her advice was invaluable and I can honestly say we have never had an argument. i will truly miss our daily conversations.
Her last job was at St. Joseph's School, Gomm Road as a school cleaner. She loved being part of the school community and from what I've been told they have fond memories of her time there. She worked way beyond retirement age and was often responsible for opening up the school even on snow days!
Her Catholic faith was important to her, she converted when she was in her 50's, and went on to become a eucharistic minister serving at Dockhead Church. She always took this responsibility very seriously. She prayed every day. If you were in trouble she would always say " I'll pray for you". At times I thought she had a direct line as she often made her prayers come true.
My mum didn't ever want to go to the doctors. I think this fear came from the loss of loved ones throughout her life. She would say that she preferred not to know what was wrong with her. This was the case right up until her last few days. My mum mostly had good health. Over the last few months she seemed to be getting a little frail but she would just brush it off. The week before she passed I joined her on a visit to my Aunt Patsy. It was a lovely visit where we shared many memories and lots of laughter. We left together and off she went with her trolley to Iceland to get something for her tea, She made sure Luna my dog (whom she loved) gave her a kiss and off she went. We spoke everyday following that and she was still so full of life and celebrating that her prayers had been answered as her granddaughter, Eleni ,had finally secured a new house to live in. We couldn't get through to her Wednesday morning before she passed so my brother and I went to her house where we found her unconscious, Michael had only left for work an hour before. She never regained consciousness and passed away the following day, Thursday 15th at 3.15pm.
We thank all the staff at St. Thomas's who ensured her last few hours were dignified. Thank you also to Canon Alan for coming to the hospital to give her the last rites. My mum passed away on the Assumption of Mary, a special religious festival when Mary, the mother of Jesus died and was 'assumed' into heaven. She would've liked that.
How can I sum up the life of my mum?
She lived a full live full of love, joy, happiness and at times sorrow, but mostly laughter.
She was an amazing mum, who taught me what it takes to be a mum. If I'm considered half the mum she was then my children will be very lucky.
Many people have mentioned her lovely smile. I'm sure she's smiling on us now, dancing the jive with my dad, looked on by her lovely mum.
Using her words
" Goodnight, God bless, we love you."
Jane, Michael, Joe, Joel and Eleni (and Luna) x

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Taken 14th March 2023 with my mum Margaret

Taken 14th March 2023 with my mum Margaret

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Taken at my wedding 20th July 2001

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June Wainwright wrote

So sorry to hear the sad news will miss our little talks that we would have when we used to bump in to each other in Iceland , rest in peace Elaine ❤️

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Linda Asplin wrote

Such sad news about elaine ‘she was such a lovely lady always had time for a chat when we met in the blue god bless you till we meet again ❤️❤️x

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Loraine Huntley was Allen wrote

Lived in Lambley knew your mum for many years had kind words to say when I lost my sister then again when my mum passed will remember her fondly

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Debbie Tinkler wrote

Mum was an amazing lady ,she was such a kind and caring person ,she was there for me when I lost both my mum an dad and she will be sadly missed, amazing elaine may you rest in peace beautiful

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She was my neighbour and I always loved seeing her. She was such an amazing lady and always made me laugh! She was always so full of love and happiness 🩷 I will miss her so very much Xxx

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Hayley Smith wrote

What a lovely, lady Elaine was. Always had time for chat, asking how my kids were and my nan and grandad. No matter my mood she always made me laugh and smile. You'll be truly missed x x

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Cathy Ager wrote

Miss putting the world to rights with you of a morning. I hope you know how special you was to me and how I’m still looking down the alley for you. Until we meet again Elaine, “Love Ya” xxx

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Katie Berwick wrote

Lovely Elaine I will miss bumping into you in the blue little Betty will miss you too may you rest in peace x

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Zoe Robins wrote

Dearest great Aunt Elaine,
You where such a character and will be sorely missed.
Reunited with my grandads brother Michael again now, he has been waiting for you for many years xxx God Bless

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Always the life and soul of a family party dancing and singing  Xx

Always the life and soul of a family party dancing and singing Xx

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Thank you for your love and laughter aunty Elaine you and your twinkly smile will be missed xxx

Thank you for your love and laughter aunty Elaine you and your twinkly smile will be missed xxx

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