Hedley Graeme Mutton (29 Jun 1974 - 24 Nov 2015)

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Our Lady of Lincoln & St Guthlac Roman Catholic Church Hereward Way Deeping St James PE6
Date
14th Dec 2015
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12.30pm
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In loving memory of Hedley Graeme Mutton who sadly passed away on 24th November 2015.

Graeme was born on 29th June 1974 in the William Smellie hospital in Lanark, Scotland. He grew up in Blackwood attending Our Lady and St. John Roman Catholic Primary School and moved to Deeping St James, Peterborough when he was 7 years old, going to St Thomas More primary school in Peterborough. He remained a patriotic Scot throughout his life however. When he first moved to Deeping St James he served as an Altar Boy in the local Roman Catholic church, Our Lady of Lincoln and St Guthlac where his funeral service will take place.

He went to Stamford school for secondary school taking 'A' Levels in Geography, French and Maths. He had applied to read French and Geography at Queen Mary's College in London but after a gap year spent as an assistant teacher at Millfield School, he changed his mind and applied to read Mathematics and Physical Education at the University of Warwick where he went on to achieve a first class honours degree.

During his youth he was a very accomplished football player, playing for Deeping Rangers and reaching cup finals with Whittlesey, St John Fisher and Peterborough City. He played rugby for Stamford School first XV, being selected as a Y11 student to tour Australia with the first XV. His best sport was Hockey where he played for school, county and regional sides before being selected to play for Scotland U18s, U21s and the full national side. In fact, this talent allowed him to gain lots of sponsorship deals and to play Hockey all over the world. He was a fearless goalkeeper.

After his degree he did a PGCE at the University of Warwick before gaining employment as a teacher of PE at The Arthur Terry School in Sutton Coldfield. He then moved to Bournville School and Sixth Form Centre where he was Head of PE, Head of year, Assistant Head teacher and Deputy Head teacher. He spent 13 years at Bournville, during which he ran many football tours abroad, helping the local students, who may not otherwise have been able to afford such trips, to raise funds.

Whilst living in Birmingham his son Tyler was born in 2001. His son was always the apple of his eye and his number one priority. Despite Graeme's competitive nature and undoubted sporting prowess he did not push sports onto his son but gave him an opportunity in a range of sports such as Basketball, Gymnastics, Rugby, Badminton and Dance. Laterly, he had been very proud watching his son play football whilst helping to run the line or referee the team.

After moving away from the Birmingham region back to Deeping St James in October 2014, he worked as a teacher of Mathematics at the The Thomas Deacon Academy before moving to the Deepings' School and then back to
The Thomas Deacon Academy in June 2015 in a senior leader position.

He was an outstanding teacher, achieving the NCTL leadership qualification and leaving his mark on very many students. He was an even better Father, Son, Brother and Uncle. He was the father of Tyler, the middle child of 5 of Hedley and Sheila, brother of Alison, Justine, Sally and Jonathan, uncle of Rebecca, Matthew, Evan, Hannah, Millie, Kira and Constance.

Nicki wrote

I knew Graeme many, many years ago when he lived in Sutton Coldfield, in a shared house, and he was a PE teacher. I always remember the story of how his first name was a family tradition.
He last got in touch when he lived in Kings Heath and told me about his son. He was very proud.

Im very sorry to hear of his passing and the circumstances surrounding this. It sounds as thou he had some troubles, and I hope he's now found some peace.

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(The picture I took of Graeme when we met, in 1993 in Terrassa (Barcelona), at the Hockey Junior World Cup.) I miss our conversations, Graeme. I will never forget you. My thoughts and prayers are  with all your family.  L x

(The picture I took of Graeme when we met, in 1993 in Terrassa (Barcelona), at the Hockey Junior World Cup.) I miss our conversations, Graeme. I will never forget you. My thoughts and prayers are with all your family. L x

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Stacey Harr wrote

Graeme, so many good times and happy memories from our Uni days. You were a kind, caring and lovely person and I am totally gutted to hear you are gone. RIP Graeme, I am always thinking of you xxxx

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Debbie Culwick donated £10 in memory of Hedley

Graeme you will be sadly missed by a lot of people. You were kind and beautiful both inside and out and brought alot of happiness to people's lives. Rest peacefully xx

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Jean Palmer wrote

Graeme you will be sadly missed. You brought happiness and joy to a room. I missed our chats and cups of tea. You changed the life's of the kids you had in your year groups, the football teams and trips abroad. I wish you could have shared your thoughts with people and got through the dark times. We will miss you. Xxxx

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Kulli Sunner donated £85 in memory of Hedley

In memory of Graeme

With love from Elgar staff room's Secret Santa x

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charlotte preece wrote

Mr mutton above and beyond for my naughty daughter at bournville school ! And when my husband left me pregnant he came to my house for meetings , something I will never forget , today a candle is lit for him and our prayers are with you all , RIP lovely man xxx love the preeces xxx

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Victoria Breheny wrote

My thoughts and love are with G's family and loved ones at this dreadfully difficult time. He made many a footprint and thousands of memories. He will be remembered with honour and smiles and have a special place in my heart forever. Definitely one of the good guys. May he have the most peaceful of sleeps. Much love X

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Vikki Chudleigh donated £30 in memory of Hedley

I give my heartfelt condolences to Graeme’s family. He was such a fun loving, charismatic guy whose antics never failed to entertain. I still recall an outing to Ikea which ended in a spontaneous weekend trip to Blackpool! We will hold you in our hearts, remembering such fond memories. Sleep tight my friend. x

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Jan Crane wrote

I give my heartfelt condolences to Graeme's family. I was privileged to have worked alongside Graeme at Bournville and a kinder, more thoughtful man I have yet to meet. Rest peacefully now Graeme...you will be sadly missed x

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