Gertrude Victoria Bathgate (29 Dec 1937 - 8 Dec 2023)

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Location
Barham Crematorium Canterbury Road Barham CT4 6QU
Date
4th Jan 2024
Time
2pm
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Location
Barham Crematorium Canterbury Road Barham CT4 6QU
Date
4th Jan 2024
Time
2pm

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Bluebirds Snargate Street Dover CT17 9DA
Date
4th Jan 2024
Time
3pm

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In loving memory of Gertrude Victoria Bathgate who sadly passed away on 8th December 2023.

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Barry Carter wrote

Wishing you well on this day of days Mum, the pain of loss does not ease xxxxxxx

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Barry Carter wrote

Happy 88th Birthday Mum, xxxxxxx

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Barry Carter wrote

Salutations Mother, I trust you are with those you love xx

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Barry Carter wrote

In my thoughts everyday mum, 2 years now, may this solstice season be good to you, Love you always Barry xxxx

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Barry Carter wrote

Hi mum, a very good friend will be with you on that side of life soon, be there for him please, I love you xxxxxxx

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Barry Carter wrote

Thank you Mum, I know you have played a part in this, it makes me so happy xxxx

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Barry Carter wrote

Hi Mum, I hope you were there to help when Jackie left us all here, xxxx

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Barry Carter wrote

Wishing you a happy Mother's day mum and hoping my siblings are spoiling you, with love and appreciation, Barry xxxx

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Barry Carter wrote

mum it is said those that go before us do so in order to prepare a place for us, you no doubt did so to make sure all is well for your twin soul when her time comes, sit with her mum, hold her hand and reassure her that you are preparing a place for her, let her feel your love and presence as she awaits the day you are reunited xx

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Barry Carter wrote

On this day 64yrs ago Mother I was born of you, though you the gift of LIFE was granted me and I remember you on all days but this day especially, I hope my life has done justice to all that your experienced in order that I may LIVE, I continue to love you and appreciate all that I am because of you xxxx

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Barry Carter wrote

A year and a day has passed Mother since you moved away from this physical realm and still your physical presence is missed, I still look for you and perhaps I always will but I am content that your life has lead you to greater things, enjoy it all, you have earned it all. My tribute to you today, love you always. Barry. https://old.bitchute.com/video/CkePpCsURSgH/

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Barry Carter wrote

Hello all, just to let those who wish to attend know that Sunday 28th July will be the date of spreading mums ashes at Elham Valley, time and location to be confirmed, please contact any of her children for more details, thank you.

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Barry Carter wrote

Wishing you well Mum on this day of days "Happy Mothers day" I love you xxxx

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Barry Carter wrote

these 3 months have gone by so quick mum, I hope you are at peace, with love always mum, Barry xxxx

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Penny McMurray donated £60 in memory of Gertrude

Thank you to The "A" Team for your card & money, which I'm donating to Mums charity. ( my friends & team mates at work)

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ian schofield wrote

deepest sympathies and condolences to barry,
i only met his mum very briefly the one time, but his love for his mother was clearly evident.
hopefully time can heal the hole in his heart x

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  • Thank you Ian.

    Posted by Barry on 8/01/2024 Report abuse
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Tina Hewlett wrote

£20 donation from Pam & Jim xxx.
( I can’t put the donation through here as the cheque is made out to sands, so I will post it to them ) RIP Gert

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Penny McMurray donated £20 in memory of Gertrude

RIP Gert, love Sue & Viv. XX

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Luke Gee donated £25 in memory of Gertrude
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Barry Carter wrote

Hello all, my mum and myself would go out once a week for a drive in the countryside and would always take in a lunch, that being said this year December the 8th, (the first anniversary of her passing) falls on a Sunday so I have suggested to my sisters and brother and Stuart and Tina that we have a memorial lunch on that day for my Mother and anyone will be welcome to join us, venue is yet to be decided but it will be somewhere mum and myself used so if you would like to be included, (buy your own lunch & drinks lol)please E=mail me and I will give you my number and keep you updated, My E-mail is bazzzilll@aol.com thank you again for supporting us at her funeral, regards and best wishes Baz

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  • Hello I don't know Barry in person nor did i know Gertrude Victoria Bathgate I am a friend to Barry. We spoke on a lot of Wednesdays about going for Tea with His Mother . My condolences to all Family and Friends Regards John

    Posted by Jon on 6/01/2024 Report abuse
  • Thank you Jon.

    Posted by Barry on 6/01/2024 Report abuse
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Penny McMurray donated £20 in memory of Gertrude

Nanny Val & Mike Kennel
RIP Gert. XX

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  • Nanny Val & Mike Pennal.

    Posted by Penny on 5/01/2024 Report abuse
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Penny McMurray donated £70 in memory of Gertrude

Donations received yesterday at the funeral from
Wendy & Gray £20
Aunty Vera £20
Kim £10
£20 given to Sarah from Farriers, not sure who from.

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Kim Hayes posted a picture
I found this in my dad's photo archives XXX

I found this in my dad's photo archives XXX

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  • Wonderful Kim. Thank you x

    Posted by Barry on 5/01/2024 Report abuse
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Kim Hayes posted a picture
Our last meal together 💖

Our last meal together 💖

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  • xxxx

    Posted by Barry on 5/01/2024 Report abuse
  • I enjoyed this day. XX

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Best of friends, together again xxx

Best of friends, together again xxx

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  • indeed xxxx

    Posted by Barry on 5/01/2024 Report abuse
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Kim Hayes donated £30 in memory of Gertrude

I have so many memories of my auntie Gert especially from childhood. Wonderful person and will be greatly missed. Goodbye auntie Gert, or Vicky as we used to call her, say hi to the rest especially mum and Colin xxx

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  • xxxx and Kevin

    Posted by Barry on 5/01/2024 Report abuse
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Michael Rodgers wrote

One lovely lady, R.I.P. G 🙏🏻♥️

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  • Thank you my friend

    Posted by Barry on 4/01/2024 Report abuse
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