Timothy James Elliott (21 Nov 1967 - 6 May 2023)

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Location
Rochester Cathedral Rochester ME1 1SX
Date
15th Jun 2023
Time
10am
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Medway Crematorium Robin Hood Lane Chatham ME5 9QU
Date
15th Jun 2023
Time
11.30am

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In loving memory of Timothy James Elliott, who sadly passed away on 6th May 2023 aged 55.

Tim was a sentimental man who always sought happiness within his life. He understood his world through music and loved so deeply. He is survived by wife Heidi, son Charlie, daughters Taggy, Maddy and Dulcie, parents John and Eileen and brother Simon.

Tim was born on 21st November 1967 in Nottingham to John and Eileen Elliott and became the younger brother to Simon Elliott. He spent his childhood in and around Eastwood, developing a passion for cricket and a love for his football team Nottingham Forest. In 1986, Tim moved to Hull to attend university there, where he spent 4 fantastic years surrounded by great friends. He then moved to London to take up a civil service position within the Cancer Team of the Department of Health, whilst house sharing with university friends in Streatham. In 1991, Tim was visiting friends in Bishop's Stortford when he first met Heidi. They were married on the 19th November 1994 and moved to Tooting Bec, where they welcomed their eldest daughter Agatha on March 5th 1996. Shortly before the arrival of their second daughter, Maddy, on 26th October 1998, Heidi and Tim moved to Rochester, where they became members of the Bishop's Sqaure community. In the following years, they welcomed Charlie and Dulcie to the family. Tim loved living in Rochester for many reasons- mainly due to the fact it is home to The Coopers Arms, where he became Quiz Master and thoroughly enjoyed the challenge of writing and delivering biweekly quizzes.

Tim remained working for the Cancer Team within the Department of Health until he died- a job which he was truly passionate about and felt proud to hold. His pride was most evident when he was invited to a Buckingham Palace Garden Party for his service to Queen and country and was able to take his mum along to celebrate.

Throughout his life, he established and maintained long lasting friendships with many people- something which brought him so much joy. Above all, Tim was a dedicated family man who, with Heidi, committed his life to building a strong family unit with their children, who brought him the most happiness of all. He will be greatly missed by his family and the wider community.

Immediate family flowers only please. If desired, the family would welcome donations in Tim's memory to the UK's Eating Disorder Charity 'Beat' as seeing his daughter Dulcie's recovery process changed him profoundly. Donations can be made online via this page.

Tracy Gordon donated £100 in memory of Timothy

In memory of Tim, our best man and THE best man. Love, laughs and so many memories Tracy & Jamie

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Nate Carter donated £29.62 in memory of Timothy
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Marian Anghileri donated in memory of Timothy

Such sad news but wonderful memories of Tim from Hull and afterwards. A warm, truly kind and clever friend. Tim knew the lyrics to every song! His loss will be deeply felt and our thoughts are with Heidi, Charlie, Taggy, Maddie and Dulcie. (Lucy, Anette, Alison, Antonia and Marian)

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Michelle Mitchell donated in memory of Timothy

Tim worked closely with CRUK over many years, and was a wonderful collaborator on many projects. His knowledge of cancer is encyclopaedic and his approach to ensuring charities and patient voices were heard in policy development was incredibly important and impactful. The cancer community, and CRUK staff current and former, will really miss Tim. All our thoughts are with Tim’s family, friends and colleagues. From Michelle Mitchell (CEO), Ian Walker, Naser Turabi, Owen Jackson and the wider leadership team at Cancer Research UK.

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Elizabeth Elliott donated in memory of Timothy

With love, Lizzie

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Sam Harrison donated in memory of Timothy

I was fortunate to work with Tim on and off over several years via my role at CRUK and more recently seconded to DHSC cancer team. He was a lovely, kind and very knowledgeable colleague, and I know will be very much missed by the cancer community. My thoughts are with his family, friends and colleagues.

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Ciara McLoughlin donated £30 in memory of Timothy

I habe great memories of working with Tim. He was a generous colleague and I learnt a lot from him, though to tgis day I can still only aspire to his super organised mailbox. No 50 unread emails for Tim.

We had lots of fun times at Friday wine, Christmas parties, Halloween parties, quizzes,pantomimes. The list goes on.

Thinking of his family. Ciaraxx

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Sarah Taylor donated in memory of Timothy

R.I.P Cousin Tim. Sending love to all the family. Love from Sarah and Drew xx

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Simon Elliott donated £500 in memory of Timothy

Rest in peace brother, sleep well. All our love Simon, Sara, Alex and LizzieXXXX

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Sharon Baker donated £50 in memory of Timothy

It was a pleasure to have known Tim, such a gentleman and true family man. He will be sadly missed by so many people xx

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Team Tunbury donated £150 in memory of Timothy

We are thinking of you and send love to your amazing family ❤️ From Steph, Fiona, Harry, Hannah, Katy, Faye, Ollie, Tracy C, Tracey M, Helen, Abi, Becky and Shelley xxx

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Daryl Stokes & Family donated in memory of Timothy
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Caroline Flechet wrote

Such a shock, its hard to believe that someone with such presence is no longer present. Our thoughts are with Heidi, Taggy, Maddy, Charlie and Dulcie with much love from Caroline, David, Charlotte, Chloe and Anna

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Martin Baker donated in memory of Timothy

Tim was our friend and our brother. We'll all miss him dearly.

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Dan Immambocus donated in memory of Timothy

I was really sad to hear this news. I worked with Tim some years ago in the Cancer team and it was an absolute pleasure to know him. Tim was a brilliant manager and colleague - he was so generous with his time and considerable knowledge. He'll be much missed.

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Louisa Turner wrote

I have such wonderful memories of Tim from our Hull Days. He was a giant of a man. Packed full of so much personality and a wonderful fun, kind, loyal friend. So sorry for you loss Heidi and Family. Fly High Tim. Gone but never forgotten x

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Louisa Turner donated £50 in memory of Timothy
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Jason Yiannikkou donated £20 in memory of Timothy

Tim was a lovely man and a brilliant colleague to us all in the Department. He made a real difference to the lives of so many people he never met through his work. He will be much missed.

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Stephen Atkinson donated £10 in memory of Timothy

Such sad news – he was will be very much missed. I was lucky enough to work for Tim for a few years in my first policy job in the cancer team and I learned so much from him.

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Verity Algar donated in memory of Timothy

I feel very lucky to have worked with Tim on the cancer team at DHSC. He was a great colleague. His knowledge of cancer policy was encyclopaedic but what stands out the most was his sense of humour and kindness.

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Mark Mawston donated £20 in memory of Timothy

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Mark Mawston wrote

Oh I wish I was in the land of cotton old times there are not forgotten. Love you big man. Elvis, Emma, Mauve and Xanthe x

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Maggie & Gary Tillmon donated in memory of Timothy

Tim will be missed by so many people, he was a gentle giant and always up for a laugh & a chat over a beer. So sorry that we can’t be there on 15th but sending much love to Heidi & the family ❤️

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Ian Moakes & family donated in memory of Timothy
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Louisa Walker donated in memory of Timothy

So so sad to hear about Tim's passing - far too soon... My heart goes out to his family. Such great memories of Tim in Ferens, Margaret St and after Uni. We had such fun - he will always be in my heart. xx

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