John Petty (30 Mar 1947 - 6 Oct 2015)

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Location
Croydon Crematorium, East Chapel Thornton Road Croydon CR7 6BB
Date
26th Oct 2015
Time
1.30pm
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T. Raj 133-135 Brighton Road Coulsdon CR5 2NJ
Date
26th Oct 2015
Time
2.30pm

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In loving memory of Albert John Petty who sadly passed away on 6th October 2015

Always 'John' to his friends, he was born March 30, 1947 to wonderful parents Ivy and William ('Bill') Petty. Along with his two sisters 'Sylv' and 'Moff' he grew up in Queens Park, central London, the same terrace house where Ivy was born and where Moff still lives.

Opportunities for early education were limited. Although in later life John proved smart and driven, studying the meat trade at Smithfield College of Butchery and pursuing a Sociology degree with the Open University, his attendance at the Beethoven Street Primary School can politely be described as 'sporadic.' From his early years, John worked with his father, learning the trade as a butcher and by 15 he was employed full time.

In 1966 at age 19, John married Helen Follows (nee Hunt) and they were immediately blessed with their first son Christopher. Almost 6 years later their second, and frankly nicer son, Simon, joined the family. John was a great father, always proud and supportive of his boys. He taught by example that the world is a constant source of wonder and fun, that nothing is impossible, that humble beginnings don’t define you and that any situation can be dramatically improved by laughing at it.

From retail work in butcher shops, John moved to Smithfield Meat Market in central London where he ultimately worked as a commodities trader. He worked tirelessly to support the family, for a time at three separate jobs, but it is to his great credit that his sons never recall him being away, unavailable or ‘too tired’ to play.

Still relatively young, it became increasingly clear that taking instruction from ‘management’ was not working for him and he founded his own butcher business as Scotch Meats. His subsequent three successful shops were renowned for high quality product, Lady Jane sausages and the most entertaining shopping experience for miles around.

Next, John decided on a mid-life career change. He sold the butcher shops and, with the skills he’d developed in business management, a winning personality, a partner but not much more, he began his second self-made career in the chauffeur trade. He built John Alan Car Service from scratch to be well respected in the industry and developed endless tales of the lifestyles of the wealthy, famous and strange. Some tales were true. Others are still being verified.

In his personal life John had the extreme good fortune to meet and fall in love with Christine, a partner in crime who shared his spirit of fun and adventure, and who delighted in (OK tolerated) his endless sense of humour. In 1996 they gathered the sons and their closest friends, flew to America and were married at the Little White Chapel in Las Vegas. Stories of the raucous celebration that followed are still told in the oral histories of that shining city. Vegas is still reeling from the their 10th anniversary return trip in 2006.

John was a recognized fellow of the Honourable Company of Butchers and a dedicated Freemason. He was initiated into The Anglo South American Lodge number 3623 on May 26 1982. He served the Lodge as Master & Treasurer and received the honour of London Grand Rank. John was a dedicated Freemason and embodied the Masonic Principals of Brotherly Love, Relief & Truth, and took great pleasure in the experience and the many great friends he gained through the institution to the end of his life.

John and Chris travelled anywhere that could be fun, often on a moment’s notice. They made multiple trips to the USA, travelled to Nicaragua, Italy, Paris, Belgium, Barcelona and elsewhere with family, and to Singapore, India and other exotic locales with friends. Truth be told, what John enjoyed most was the company of friends over a fine dinner and drinks, lots of laughter and tall tales - no matter where that occurred. There is not a restaurant in the world that wouldn’t light up to his laughter or be invigorated with his spirit, he will be sorely missed and his memory heartily toasted.

He will be remembered with a service at Croydon Crematorium on Monday 26th October at 13:30, followed by drinks and food at T Raj restaurant, Coulsdon. It is requested that attendees do not wear sombre clothing as fitting the celebration of this life.

We ask for no flowers but donations welcome to the designated charities or cheques payable to MDS UK.

Robert Treloggan wrote

Sad to hear that John passed away, many a happy hour was spent in his presence playing with his boys at their house in Croydon/Purley in the late 70’s/early 80’s when our parents were good friends. Rest In Peace

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Geoff Pearce donated in memory of John

Many a happy hour spent putting the world to rights and laughing with John.
Very sorry to hear of his passing away.

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John& Janette Turner wrote

John

We will miss your friendship and your champagne talks ,your sense of humour and your kindness
You will be sincerely missed but remembered fondly,our thoughts are with Christine and your family at this sad time

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Glyn & Margaret Edmonstone wrote

John was one of the worlds gentle giants. Once seen, never forgotten & with his humor, he has left an indelible picture in our memories.

We hope his spirit is having as much fun (wherever he is) as he had on Earth in the good times.

I expect he will be with his old pals causing havoc again.

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Joseph erdmann donated £13.06 in memory of John

God Bless

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Robert (Bob) Armstrong donated £50 in memory of John

John Petty late? Now that's a first!

I was very saddened to learn that John had succomed to his Leaukemia. John and I shared many years of chauffeuring each others clients and enjoyed many chats often on the phone. I used to thoroughly enjoy working with John on his Canadian High Commission visits along with David Carpenter (CHC) Vic Hobbs and others. John would always reciprocate by driving the late Mrs Evelyn Lauder for me, daughter in law of Estée Lauder when accompaning her husband on London vists.

I will always respect and admire John not only for his joviality but equally his willingness to assist with even the most menial hires not forgeting his advice on how to choose the perfect sauasage! His only failing being to convince me Goa is worth a visit! Can't agree on everything.

I miss sharing laughter as he related how he had left a Dymcurch pub, opting for a walk along the coast path, only to walk off the end onto the rocks below. Sensing the potential for a personal injury claim I questioned whether it was adequately signed or fenced. "It was in the dark!" John conceded.

I had every intention of atending today's funeral but frustratingly I have filmscore composer Hans Zimmer in for five days and my son Mike is already meeting a jet at Cranfield. I know John would understand.

I will continue to think of John on the occasions I slowly wind pass his address on the train to London. My thoughts will be booked for him at 13.30 as he sets off on his final journey.

I am only sorry there's no return on this one!

Best regards

Robert Armstrong

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jeremy simpson wrote

Thinking of you all at this sad time

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Sarah Harman wrote

To have known John has been a privilege. He was the most positive, happy go lucky chap I have ever come in contact with. Even after falling off a cliff he told me all about it still laughing. No conversation was ever complete without him laughing. He was brave, up-beat and lived his life to the max. An inspiration. He was taken too soon and will be sadly missed by all.

My heart goes out to Christine and the boys. He loved and appreciated you all so very much.

Rest in peace John.

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R.I.P. John, you will be sadly missed by all your family and friends. Your sense of humour and madcap fun will always be fondly remembered!

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Christening gown, chocolate sauce........John!!!!

Christening gown, chocolate sauce........John!!!!

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Shelagh Rolland donated in memory of John

You made us all smile and laugh John, time to rest in peace now.
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Florence McCubbin wrote

John was one of the silliest people I have ever had the privilege of knowing. As a child he made my world magical hiding sweets in his office and telling me a fairy lived there. As an adult he somehow still managed to make every story seem like an epic adventure, to this day I don’t know if half the stories he told me had even an inkling of truth. But what I do know is that I have many great stories of my own because of him.

Forever in my heart

Flumps xx

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Our dear John who we will miss so much. xxxx

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Karen McMahon wrote

Where do you start when you want to talk about John? We've known' Tigger', as my girls Kirsty and Louise called him, for 30yrs, when he 'bounced' into our lives and turned it upside down. If you know John, you'll know he never took anything seriously, and frustrated the hell out of you if you tried to have a serious conversation with him! He loved nothing more than to wind Kirsty and Louise up, then go home, leaving us with the fallout! Our Mum, Marion, also constantly got the John treatment, until she clipped him round the ear and told him to respect his elders!! But he made us our lives so much richer for it, and I only wish he could've stayed around to enrich Lilly and Alivia's lives as well. John was the family's steadying influence (believe it or not!) and was always there when things got tense, to calm everyone down. I'll never forget the support he gave me when Mum and Dad passed away, I wouldn't have coped without him. I loved his stories, funny and serious, and learnt alot from him. Finally, I wish all those phone conversations I had with him over the last 4yrs, where he always started by saying "I'm cured Karen!", had come true. I miss you Tigger, look after everyone up there. God Bless.

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