Choosing The Right Funeral Director For You...
Arranging a funeral is exhausting.
Selecting the best funeral director can be a challenging task during a time of your life that is inundated with sadness and turmoil over the loss of a loved one. When it comes to hiring an executive to manage the funeral, there are many components to consider beforehand.
From their reputation, price point, and general demeanour, almost every funeral director will have slight variations in the services they offer.
However, there are relevant standards that should be considered when choosing someone to handle the death of someone you care about. To educate and assist you in your search, we have created this guide to offer help deciding on the right funeral director.
Is the Funeral Director Part of the Correct Governing Bodies?
One of the first areas to consider when making your choice of director is to determine whether they belong to the following governing bodies for the UK:
- The National Association of Funeral Directors (NAFD)
- The National Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Directors (SAIF)
By belonging to these governing bodies, you can be certain that the director you are considering is following the standards that are set forth by the government and industry, ultimately qualifying them to maintain their status and reputation.
These organisations will also have a cohesive complaints procedure in place, along with a wide range of services for various prices. If there is ever a moment that you are doubting a funeral director, give either of these associations a call to request feedback.
Assistance with Organising the Service
Ultimately, how you want the service to flow is up to you. But it is important to find someone you feel is going to do everything he or she can to adhere to the deceased’s and family’s wishes for the service.
This includes following the appropriate religious, legal, and individual guidelines that are stipulated from the onset of the funeral plans.
Every family is different, with some wanting a more traditional service, others requesting a ‘celebration of life’ funeral, and some conducting a formal and regimented burial.
Many can experience a backlash from family members when it comes to planning the service, so it is important to select a director that you are sure will follow the wishes of your family, has experience dealing with these instances, and overall makes you feel comfortable. They should be the advocate of the deceased and a support system for the entire family.