TDM Funeral Services

18 reviews

Independent Funeral Director based in Kent, serving West Malling, Dover and Deal, Ashford, Canterbury and Folkstone, London and other areas in the South East of England

Latest Verified Reviews

Russell Tutt 22nd Mar 2026

Went out of there way to support the family when needed, would recommend to any one ,a Big thank you.

Denise Hanstead 16th Feb 2026

I would like to thank Lana and her team at TDM funeral services for the handling of our mum’s cremation. Right from the very beginning when they collected her from the home to the very end they have shown such compassion, empathy and respect all the way. The little touches and attention to detail meant so much, as was your guidance at such a difficult time. We will be forever grateful to you all.

Katie Meazza 25th Nov 2025

TDM funeral services went above and beyond from start to finish. We cannot thank Lana enough for the incredible attention to detail, the care and dedication and the support she provided for the family. Words cannot describe how grateful we are for everything Lana did to ensure our dear Shane got the send of he deserves. 5* wouldn’t be enough to express how amazing TDM were. Highly recommend.

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Location

54 High Street
West Malling
Kent
ME19 6LU

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About Us

TDM Funeral Services are are an internet-based company operating out of Kent, priding themselves on providing a competitively priced yet comprehensive funeral service to bereaved families across the South East of England.

With over 20 years experience, TDM Funerals understand the importance of delivering compassionate support to the families they serve and providing the best quality of care for a loved one with the highest level of honour and dignity.

The staff at TDM Funeral Services understand the financial strain a funeral can be and for this reason they will always strive to make arrangements and services as inexpensive as possible, without compromising on quality.

The team are able to offer support 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and 365 days of the year. Contact TDM Funeral Services today to make an enquiry, request a quote, or to engage their services and begin making funeral arrangements.

Latest Obituaries

Margaret Lillian    Tutt

Margaret Lillian Tutt

Oct 1930 - Feb 2026

Merle   Agate

Merle Agate

Mar 1937 - Jan 2026

Shane    Donnelly

Shane Donnelly

Jun 1989 - Oct 2025

Sandra Rosina   Stanbury

Sandra Rosina Stanbury

Dec 1955 - Sep 2025

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Verified Reviews

Verified Reviews

  • 5 Russell Tutt 22nd Mar 2026

    Went out of there way to support the family when needed, would recommend to any one ,a Big thank you.

  • 5 Denise Hanstead 16th Feb 2026

    I would like to thank Lana and her team at TDM funeral services for the handling of our mum’s cremation. Right from the very beginning when they collected her from the home to the very end they have shown such compassion, empathy and respect all the way. The little touches and attention to detail meant so much, as was your guidance at such a difficult time. We will be forever grateful to you all.

  • 5 Katie Meazza 25th Nov 2025

    TDM funeral services went above and beyond from start to finish. We cannot thank Lana enough for the incredible attention to detail, the care and dedication and the support she provided for the family. Words cannot describe how grateful we are for everything Lana did to ensure our dear Shane got the send of he deserves. 5* wouldn’t be enough to express how amazing TDM were. Highly recommend.

  • 5 Karol Hall 13th Nov 2025

    very helpful and understanding and value for money staff very helpful all round very good many thanks Karol Hall

  • 5 Sophie Scott 11th Nov 2025

    Really lovely team who looked after me and my late husband with so much care and kindness. Highly recommend to anyone. Thank you Lana and her lovely team. X

  • 5 Sarah Mckee 10th Oct 2025

    My family and I opted for a direct cremation for my mum and things could’nt have been simpler with TDM. Friendly & efficient staff which is exactly what you need during such a difficult time. Thank you to everyone involved. 

  • 5 Carmen Cronje 2nd Oct 2025

    Lana has been so supportive throughout this difficult journey. She took the time to explain, and sometimes re-explain when needed, how everything works and what each step of the process involved. She was always just a phone call away, and her support extended through to the collection of Mom’s ashes, making a very hard time a little easier. Thank you Lana!

  • 5 Heather O'Boyle 18th Sep 2025

    Lana was so helpful, compassionate and understanding.
    She made a very difficult time easier....
    From start to finish.
    Can only say thank you.

  • 5 Elizabeth Feast 12th Sep 2025

    Lana from TDM was very kind and helpful through the process, unfortunately, there was a delay with the death certificate which my family did not know how to expedite and eventually Lana was able to sort out this situation satisfactorily. We would have appreciated some advice in the early stages. Lana returned the Ashes and possession with grace and care, very much appreciate her care.

  • 5 Barbara Burrell 21st Aug 2025

    TDM were excellent and I highly recommend them.

    I chose a simple cremation for my partner, something we agreed on before he passed, which cost a total of £899 - the price advertised - no nasty surprises or added extras. I chose a simple cardboard box for the ashes as these are being taken abroad to be scattered.

    Everything was handled via email (my choice) and went smoothly. I asked if fingerprints could be taken and TDM provided all 10 fingerprints via email and in print when the ashes were delivered. TDM advised on the cremation date and hand delivered the ashes shortly afterwards. The delivery was very respectful, the gentleman was suited in black and white despite it being in the recent heatwave.

    I was hesitant initially but need not have worried as TDM were excellent and true to their word. Other companies I had looked at advertised one price, all of which was more than TDM, but then when you read further they wanted to charge extra if the individual was over a certain height or weight, depending on where the collection was from, etc.

    I am surprised that TDM do not have more reviews, this was one of the things that made me hesitant, but I can only assume this is because most people are not up to writing a review whilst still grieving. These reviews are essential as it is a difficult enough process without having reviews to reassure you.

    Please do not hesitate to use TDM, their service, the respect they show and the professional manner with which they handle everything is exceptional and the price they charge is extremely reasonable.

    My thanks to Lana and everyone at TDM for making a painful process as smooth, hassle free and painless as possible.

    THANK YOU x

  • 5 Alison Dilnutt 21st Aug 2025

    TDM were kind, professional and great value for money. I can't recommend them highly enough.

  • 5 Joanna Mears 27th May 2025

    I dealt with Lana for my dad’s service, she was amazing. I felt that Lana was professional yet had the unique skill of bringing humour to a sad situation which was very much needed. Lana’s kindness and compassion made the process so much easier, nothing was too much trouble and we were kept up to date at each stage. Myself and my family will always be grateful to Lana for making a sad situation manageable. Thank you Lana

  • 5 Serena Maggs 6th Dec 2024

    What can I say Lana was amazing. She guided me through the most difficult time of my life taking care of my son (Ted).  Jo, Linzi and the rest of the team also were very supportive. I cannot thank them enough for their care and love at the time, even now. A heartfelt thank you to you all. Love Serena.

  • 5 Vincent James 30th Nov 2024

    We couldn't fault their service. Extremely professional, caring and compassionate. They held our hands throughout the process. Special thanks to Lana and Carol the celebrant for making this difficult time as easy as possible. An amazing team.

  • 5 Lynda McCoy 3rd Nov 2024

    I could not be more grateful than I am to Lana at TDM, she has helped my daughter and I so much, from the initial stages of setting up the funeral, through all the planning, allaying all our worries and fears with excellent communication and letting us know what we had to do by when, to then on the day conducting the actual funeral with such dignity and professionalism. I cannot thank you enough, it felt like you were a true friend throughout. I am so glad we chose TDM.

  • 5 Lynda McCoy 2nd Nov 2024

    Oh, where do I start, we could not have been more pleased with the total service we received from TDM. From the moment we met Lana, nothing was too much to ask, she is one in a million and I have a feeling no other funeral director would have given us so much help, encouragement, support and loving kindness. Wow you have been wonderful. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

  • 5 Andy Dixon 24th Jul 2024

    Lana was excellent as we found.

  • 5 Julie Ellis 17th Jun 2024

    This was the first time that I had to organise a funeral and I can't thank TDM Funeral Services enough, Lana, in particular was absolutely amazing and made a very difficult time easier to navigate, from my initial call, I felt at ease and knew everything was in good hands, Lana was always a call away, always there when I needed to ask random, silly questions...

    On the day of the funeral, the professionalism was outstanding, second to none! I have absolutely no hesitation in recommending TDM and the celebrants they use, everything about the whole process was faultless and if I could give 10 stars I would! Heartfelt thanks all round.

Address
54 High Street
West Malling
Kent
ME19 6LU

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Latest Verified Reviews

Russell Tutt 22nd Mar 2026

Went out of there way to support the family when needed, would recommend to any one ,a Big thank you.

Denise Hanstead 16th Feb 2026

I would like to thank Lana and her team at TDM funeral services for the handling of our mum’s cremation. Right from the very beginning when they collected her from the home to the very end they have shown such compassion, empathy and respect all the way. The little touches and attention to detail meant so much, as was your guidance at such a difficult time. We will be forever grateful to you all.

Katie Meazza 25th Nov 2025

TDM funeral services went above and beyond from start to finish. We cannot thank Lana enough for the incredible attention to detail, the care and dedication and the support she provided for the family. Words cannot describe how grateful we are for everything Lana did to ensure our dear Shane got the send of he deserves. 5* wouldn’t be enough to express how amazing TDM were. Highly recommend.

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