S. Stibbards & Sons, Shoeburyness

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A family-owned funeral home in Shoeburyness supporting families in the surrounding area with compassionate and caring funeral services

Funeral arrangements

  • Home visit
  • 24 hour telephone support
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest
  • Hearse
  • Limousine
  • Horse-drawn hearse
  • Bespoke vehicle
  • Coffin
  • Personalised coffin
  • Casket
  • Headstone / Plaque
  • Urn
  • Memorial jewellery
  • Floral tributes
  • Charitable donations
  • Newspaper announcement
  • Online obituary
  • Memorial book
  • Order of service sheets
  • Music
  • Video tribute
  • Funeral webcasting
  • Catering
  • Dove release
  • Balloon release
  • Fireworks

Types of funeral

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Green funeral
  • Direct cremation
  • Burial at sea
  • Non-religious funeral
  • Anglican funeral
  • Roman Catholic funeral
  • Muslim funeral
  • Jewish funeral
  • Sikh funeral
  • Hindu funeral
  • Buddhist funeral
  • Children’s funeral

Financial arrangements

  • Financial advice
  • Wills & probate
  • Pre-paid funeral plan

Additional services

  • Repatriation
  • Bereavement counselling
  • List of mourners

Location

74 Ness Road
Shoeburyness
Essex
SS3 9DG

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Professional Standards

  • NAFD Member

    Members agree to a published Code of Practice and can be held to account through the Association if something goes wrong.

    What they do

    • Inspects member premises to check standards are being met
    • Runs a complaints and resolution service for bereaved families
    • Provides funeral training and professional qualifications
  • SAIF Member

    Businesses are checked before they are admitted to SAIF and work to the Society’s Code of Practice.

    What they do

    • Inspects businesses before granting membership
    • Represents independent and family-owned funeral directors
    • Offers free, independent arbitration if something goes wrong

About Us

The caring team at S Stibbards & Sons understand that contacting a funeral director can seem daunting, but with over 150 years experience, they are there to listen, reassure and support families at this very difficult time.

As a funeral home with family values at its heart, its focus is upon providing compassionate funeral care to families in Shoeburyness and the surrounding villages, including Foulness Island, at whatever time of day or night it is needed.

When it can be hard to focus on decision-making, it is the role of their caring team to listen and support families in a reassuring space where they can focus on their loved one.

S Stibbards & Sons’ Shoeburyness funeral home was refurbished in 2025 and provides a calm and tranquil atmosphere in which to make funeral arrangements. It is fully accessible to wheelchair users, and has a private chapel of rest where families can spend precious time with their loved one, reassured that their funeral wishes are being taken care of. Should you prefer support in more familiar surroundings, a home visit can be arranged.

Whether families prefer a full traditional funeral service, or a quiet farewell tailored to their needs, funeral director Martin Stibbards and his experienced staff aim to ensure that the arrangements fulfil every family’s wishes.

Stibbards offers a fleet of modern Jaguar hearses and limousines to ensure families and their loved one will travel in comfort, driven by their professional staff. Traditional horse-drawn hearses, vintage vehicles and other bespoke options can also be arranged.

S Stibbards & Sons is a member of the National Association of Funeral Directors and Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Homes Association (SAIF) and meets the high standards set by both.

It offers Golden Charter funeral plans to those who are considering the future, while as part of its support for families, it offers in-house bereavement counselling.

Call S Stibbards & Sons for a compassionate and helpful funeral service in Shoeburyness.

Latest Obituaries

Irene   Levy

Irene Levy

Sep 1960 - Jul 2026

Aaron   Cause

Aaron Cause

Sep 1964 - Jul 2026

Steve   Malone

Steve Malone

Apr 1949 - Jul 2026

Patricia 'Ann'   Hampson

Patricia 'Ann' Hampson

Oct 1932 - Jul 2026

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What Families Say

AI Summary

Many families praise the care and compassion shown by staff throughout the funeral arrangements, describing how the team helped make a deeply difficult time more bearable. Several note that nothing was too much trouble, with staff always available to answer questions and guide them through decisions at a time when they felt overwhelmed.

Families return frequently to how smoothly the funeral day itself went, crediting the professionalism and kindness of staff on the day for allowing them to focus on saying goodbye rather than worrying about logistics or timing. Many describe feeling supported and at ease during what they anticipated would be a stressful occasion.

Communication before and after the funeral is mentioned often, with families appreciating being kept informed at each stage and having their wishes carried out exactly as discussed, which gave them confidence they were in capable hands.

This summary is generated by AI from recent verified reviews.

Verified Reviews

Verified Reviews

  • 5 Sylvia Bell 5th Feb 2025

    Hello, I couldn’t possibly recommend Stibbards highly enough, from beginning with Alison Bunkle to the end with all the arrangements and all the lovely caring staff, nothing was too much trouble and everyone was so professional, thank you so much for taking great care of all our family at such a very sad time. I will always remember you, yours sincerely, Sylvia and family…

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Sylvia, thank you for taking the time to express your thanks for the service that we provided to you at such a sad time. I am pleased that you felt looked after and supported by all involved.
  • 5 Ann Davies 25th Jan 2025

    From start to finish, we received an excellent service from all the team at stibbards, especially Alison & simon.
    They all showed such kindness and compassion.
    That made a very difficult day, a bit easier to bear.
    A heartfelt thank you too you all x

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Ann, on behalf of Myself and Alison, we are so pleased to have been able to help you and the family through such a difficult time. It was lovely to touch on the seafront for Mum's final journey with the sun shining for you all. Thank you for taking the time to comment on our service to you, it is much appreciated
  • 5 Celia Sambrook 10th Jan 2025

    Simon and the other guys looked after myself and my family at our saddest time. Also Alison from the Shoebury branch was such a help to myself and was there always for me. Would recommend Stibbards to any one who unfortunately has to arrange a funeral.

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Celia, thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts with us, it was my privilege to be able to look after you and your family and I am so pleased that all was as you wished. I am sure that Alison would also be very grateful for your kind words to her, thank you again.
  • 5 Sally Carter 6th Jan 2025

    Alison has been amazing with helping me plan the kind of funeral that I'd like Danny to have.

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Sally, thank you for putting your trust in us, I am so pleased that Alison has looked after you so well, I will ensure that your thoughts are shared with Alison who always tries to go above and beyond.
  • 5 Valerie Jarvis 23rd Dec 2024

    Everyone was excellent and the funeral was very wrll organised.l cannot thank Stibbards enough for their help and understanding

    Tim Barker replied
    Dear Valerie, we are so pleased to have been able to help you and your family through such a difficult time. Thank you for taking the time to comment on our service to you, it is much appreciated.
  • 5 David Armstrong 14th Dec 2024

    Couldnt highly recommend Alison and her team enough , they went above and beyond to make sure my loved one and our family was all looked after. They was so kind and considerate and I cant thank them enough.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear David, on behalf of Alison and the whole team at Stibbards, I thank you for your kind sentiments and we are so pleased that everything went so well for you.
  • 5 Anna Girvan 11th Dec 2024

    The team at Stibbards especially Alison at Shoeburyness, Joe who came to our home and Scott for his support at the funeral have been amazing. Their care of my mum, their support for our family was outstanding. Alison was so supportive and let me visit mum whenever I wanted to and after my visit she would sit with me whilst I told her the memories I shared and also the sadness I felt. A truly caring and supportive service throughout. Thank you all x

    Dave Ponton replied

    Dear Anna, thank you for putting your trust in us and I am so pleased that Alison, Scott and the team looked after you all so well, I will ensure that your thoughts are shared with Alison who always tries to go above and beyond.
  • 5 Richard Vale 7th Dec 2024

     Could not wish for a better service

    Dave Ponton replied

    Dear Richard, thank you for your kind words, I will ensure they are shared with all concerned
  • 5 Jennifer Hale 6th Dec 2024

    From the minute they took my brother into their care they showed respect, compassion and caring not only to my brother, but also myself. A very difficult time for the family but they made it so much easier with their kindness both before and after the funeral. They guided us every step of the way and were always available if we had any queries or concerns. I couldn't recommend them highly enough.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Jennifer, thank you for taking the time to comment on our service to you and your kind recommendation, your words are gratefully received.
  • 5 Kevin Wealthall 2nd Dec 2024

    I would like to thank Stibbards and all the staff,especially Allison in the way they looked after my Darling Lynn and the care we received from all of you on the day it so well done and we as a family had nothing to worry about
    Many Thanks to you all
    Kevin Wealthall

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Kevin, Thank you for putting your trust in us once again and I am so pleased that Alison and the team looked after you all so well, I will ensure that your thoughts are shared with Alison who always tries to go above and beyond.
  • 5 Danielle Jansen 30th Nov 2024

    I can't thank Stibbards enough for the way they looked after my mum and helped us prepare for the toughest day of our lives. Everything was organised in a sympathetic and caring manner. The funeral celebrant they recommended, Emma, was excellent too. Special mention must go to Alison and Stuart for their kindness and help. I would highly recommend their services to anyone at their time of bereavement.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Danielle, thank you for your kind words and particular praise for Alison and Stuart. We are so pleased that the care you received met with your expectations and thank you for your continued support for our family run company.
  • 5 Hayley Cox 29th Oct 2024

    Excellent care throughout. Couldn’t have asked for more, Simon was amazing on the day. We’ll be forever grateful ☺️ 

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Hayley, I am so pleased that Simon and the team took such diligent care of you and the family and you felt that the service was a reflection of your wishes
  • 5 Jackie Rudd 14th Oct 2024

    Very professional and extremely supportive 

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Jackie, we are so pleased to have been able to help you and the family through such a difficult time. Thank you for taking the time to comment on our service to you, it is much appreciated
  • 5 Sandra Moir 13th Sep 2024

    Kind and professional staff

    Dave Ponton replied

    Dear Sandra, thank you for your kind words, I will ensure they are shared with all concerned
  • 5 Josephine Britto 8th Sep 2024

    David and Leo were very professional in advising us in preparation of Conrad’s funeral. Queries were promptly solved. On the day it all went smoothly under Simon’s direction.

    Dave Ponton replied

    Dear Josephine,thank you for allowing us to come into your lives at such a difficult time. I am so pleased that all went well on the day and that David, Leo and Simon looked after you with such great care.
  • 5 Christine Hayhurst 26th Jul 2024

    Everyone at Stibbards made sure everything was as requested as they did with my father's funeral. I would highly recommend their service. They were exceptional on the day insuring everything ran smoothly. Leo and Scott were patient, understanding and supportive.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Christine, thank you for your kind words and particular praise for Leo and Scott. We are so pleased that the care you received met with your expectations and thank you for your continued support for our family run company.
  • 5 Kirsty Wright 21st Jul 2024

    Compassionate, helpful and empathetic throughout the whole process. Completely recommend.

    Dave Ponton replied

    Dear Kirsty, we are so pleased to have been able to help you and the family through such a difficult time. Thank you for taking the time to comment on our service to you, it is much appreciated
  • 5 David Sutton 7th Jul 2024

    Dealing with bereavement and arranging a funeral at the one time you dont want to isnt easy. However Stibbards made it easy. They made useful suggestions and gave helpful advice. Nothing was too much trouble and they helped give the funeral we wanted. Leo at Shoeburyness was fantastic and Id recommend them to anyone in the same situation.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear David, I am so pleased that Leo and the team took such diligent care of you and the family and you felt that the service was a reflection of your wishes
  • 5 Jonathan Sedgwick 7th Jul 2024

    Leo was great.. nothing was too much trouble 
    Thankyou 

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Jonathan, thank you for taking the time to express your thanks for the service that we provided to you. I am pleased that you felt looked after and supported.
  • 5 Andrew Deadman 30th Jun 2024

    Leo at Shoebury was very very supportive.  After a difficult two years with the losses of mum Lucas, dad deadman, brother Richard then mum Brenda Leo was very kind and helped guide us through the minefield of Wakering council. On the day all members of Stibbards staff were exceptional and a credit to the company 
    Thank you. Andy and Avril Deadman and all the grandchildren X 

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Andrew, thank you for putting your trust in us once again and I am so pleased that Leo and the team looked after you all so well, I will ensure that your thoughts are shared with Leo who always tries to go above and beyond.
  • 5 Pauline Chiles 21st Jun 2024

    all staff were very professional, friendly and helpful.  

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Pauline, thank you for your kind words and taking the time to comment on our service to you.
  • 5 John Badcock 18th May 2024

    Very good service from start to finish. Staff were friendly and helpful at all times. I would thoroughly recommend them.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear John, thank you for taking the time to comment on our service to you and your kind recommendation, your words are gratefully received.
  • 5 Martin Rivers 11th May 2024

    Everything was dealt with superbly, everyone I dealt with either on the phone or face to face were kind and very professional and we would use Stibbards again thank you all. From Martin and all the family

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Martin, thank you for your very generous comments which mean so much to all of us at Stibbards. As a family company we cherish the relationships that we build with our families and your kind comments will be shared with the team.
  • 4 John Haslehurst 30th Apr 2024

    I do not know if it was me not listening whilst at the funeral directors or a missunderstanding on my part. As I had to follow up on some information about having the information regarding my fathers death being uploaded to the Funeral Guide web site. Also the option on the Web site to request confirmation of attendance at the wake was not available and I had to chase it. I don't know whose responsibilty it was to have this option available, but thought from our discussion at the undertakers that it would be a standard facility.
    Aside from this the funeral was handled with complete profesionalism. Thank you John Haslehurst

  • 5 Peter Leake 1st Apr 2024

    We would like to thank all at Stibbards involved with Margaret's funeral for your advice, help and making every thing run so smoothly, we couldn't have asked for better.
    Also thank you for recommending Laura Manvell, she was very helpful and organised and carried out the proceedings at the Crematorium beautifully and with compassion.
    Once again thank you very much.

    Dave Ponton replied
    Dear Peter, thank you for your very generous comments which mean so much to all of us at Stibbards. As a family company we cherish the relationships that we build with our families and your kind comments will be shared with the team.

Address
74 Ness Road
Shoeburyness
Essex
SS3 9DG

Open map

Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Professional Standards

  • NAFD Member

    Members agree to a published Code of Practice and can be held to account through the Association if something goes wrong.

    What they do

    • Inspects member premises to check standards are being met
    • Runs a complaints and resolution service for bereaved families
    • Provides funeral training and professional qualifications
  • SAIF Member

    Businesses are checked before they are admitted to SAIF and work to the Society’s Code of Practice.

    What they do

    • Inspects businesses before granting membership
    • Represents independent and family-owned funeral directors
    • Offers free, independent arbitration if something goes wrong

Latest Verified Reviews

Sylvia Bell 5th Feb 2025

Hello, I couldn’t possibly recommend Stibbards highly enough, from beginning with Alison Bunkle to the end with all the arrangements and all the lovely caring staff, nothing was too much trouble and everyone was so professional, thank you so much for taking great care of all our family at such a very sad time. I will always remember you, yours sincerely, Sylvia and family…

Ann Davies 25th Jan 2025

From start to finish, we received an excellent service from all the team at stibbards, especially Alison & simon. They all showed such kindness and compassion. That made a very difficult day, a bit easier to bear. A heartfelt thank you too you all x

Celia Sambrook 10th Jan 2025

Simon and the other guys looked after myself and my family at our saddest time. Also Alison from the Shoebury branch was such a help to myself and was there always for me. Would recommend Stibbards to any one who unfortunately has to arrange a funeral.

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