S. Stibbards & Sons, Shoeburyness

172 reviews

A family-owned funeral home in Shoeburyness supporting families in the surrounding area with compassionate and caring funeral services

Latest Verified Reviews

Tina Dalton 27th Feb 2023

Stibbards have been excellent from start to finish, taking care of everything and fulfilling all our requests in a very caring and supportive manner, whilst being highly professional at all times. 

Donna Saunders 25th Feb 2023

Such A beautiful send off. Everything Adam wanted and more. Totally recommend to friends and family. Will totally be back to do my own. Thank so much for your love and care.

Samantha Allen 29th Jan 2023

Karen has been a fantastic support through this difficult time . She helped planned a lovely funeral for my mum . She is very dedicated to making sure everything went to plan and the support i got from her was amazing . 

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Funeral arrangements

  • Home visit
  • 24 hour telephone support
  • On-site parking
  • Chapel of rest
  • Hearse
  • Limousine
  • Horse-drawn hearse
  • Bespoke vehicle
  • Coffin
  • Personalised coffin
  • Casket
  • Headstone / Plaque
  • Urn
  • Memorial jewellery
  • Floral tributes
  • Charitable donations
  • Newspaper announcement
  • Online obituary
  • Memorial book
  • Order of service sheets
  • Music
  • Video tribute
  • Funeral webcasting
  • Catering
  • Dove release
  • Balloon release
  • Fireworks

Types of funeral

  • Traditional burial
  • Simple funeral
  • Traditional cremation
  • Green funeral
  • Direct cremation
  • Burial at sea
  • Non-religious funeral
  • Anglican funeral
  • Roman Catholic funeral
  • Muslim funeral
  • Jewish funeral
  • Sikh funeral
  • Hindu funeral
  • Buddhist funeral
  • Children’s funeral

Financial arrangements

  • Financial advice
  • Wills & probate
  • Pre-paid funeral plan

Additional services

  • Repatriation
  • Bereavement counselling
  • List of mourners

Location

74 Ness Road
Shoeburyness
Essex
SS3 9DG

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours
Call: 01702 418713

About Us

The caring team at S Stibbards & Sons understand that contacting a funeral director can seem daunting, but with over 150 years experience, they are there to listen, reassure and support families at this very difficult time.

As a funeral home with family values at its heart, its focus is upon providing compassionate funeral care to families in Shoeburyness and the surrounding villages, including Foulness Island, at whatever time of day or night it is needed.

When it can be hard to focus on decision-making, it is the role of their caring team to listen and support families in a reassuring space where they can focus on their loved one.

S Stibbards & Sons’ Shoeburyness funeral home was fully refurbished in 2003, and provides a calm and tranquil atmosphere in which to make funeral arrangements. It is fully accessible to wheelchair users, and has a private chapel of rest where families can spend precious time with their loved one, reassured that their funeral wishes are being taken care of. Should you prefer support in more familiar surroundings, a home visit can be arranged.

Whether families prefer a full traditional funeral service, or a quiet farewell tailored to their needs, funeral director Martin Stibbards and his experienced staff aim to ensure that the arrangements fulfil every family’s wishes.

Stibbards offers a fleet of modern Jaguar hearses and limousines to ensure families and their loved one will travel in comfort, driven by their professional staff. Traditional horse-drawn hearses, vintage vehicles and other bespoke options can also be arranged.

S Stibbards & Sons is a member of the National Association of Funeral Directors and Society of Allied and Independent Funeral Homes Association (SAIF) and meets the high standards set by both.

It offers Golden Charter funeral plans to those who are considering the future, while as part of its support for families, it offers in-house bereavement counselling.

Call S Stibbards & Sons for a compassionate and helpful funeral service in Shoeburyness.

Latest Obituaries

Barry   Harding

Barry Harding

Nov 1944 - Feb 2024

Don   Clarke

Don Clarke

Jul 1935 - Jan 2024

Wayne   Mellowship

Wayne Mellowship

Jun 1962 - Jan 2024

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Verified Reviews

Verified Reviews

  • 5 Tina Dalton 27th Feb 2023

    Stibbards have been excellent from start to finish, taking care of everything and fulfilling all our requests in a very caring and supportive manner, whilst being highly professional at all times. 

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Tina, on behalf of the whole team at Stibbards, I thank you for your kind sentiments and we are so pleased that everything went so well for you.
  • 5 Donna Saunders 25th Feb 2023

    Such A beautiful send off. Everything Adam wanted and more. Totally recommend to friends and family. Will totally be back to do my own. Thank so much for your love and care.

    Lee Marston replied
    Thank you Donna for taking the time to comment on our service to you and your kind recommendation. We are so pleased, that our team were able to provide a fitting farewell for Adam and you as a family were well looked after.
  • 5 Samantha Allen 29th Jan 2023

    Karen has been a fantastic support through this difficult time . She helped planned a lovely funeral for my mum . She is very dedicated to making sure everything went to plan and the support i got from her was amazing . 

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Samantha, I am so pleased that Karen and the team took such diligent care of you and the family and you felt that the service was a reflection of your wishes
  • 5 David Campkin 13th Jan 2023

    Helpful, & an excellent friendly & respectful service provided by all the staff who assisted & helped with the funeral arrangements of my late Mother & the funeral itself.
    Excellent all round & grateful to all concerned.

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear David, we are so pleased, that Karen and the rest of the team were able to provide a fitting farewell for Mary and you as a family were well looked after.
  • 2 Graham Edwards 15th Dec 2022

    I wasn't happy about all the mistakes so bad that I had to go to view him in the Chapel of rest to make sure it was Graham in the coffin. The last straw was when you put the wrong name on the obituary for the webcam information. As you can imagine the family are distraught and would like some compensation

    Martin Stibbards replied
    Dear Gillian, we are so sorry that you feel all was not as perfect as it could have been. We always strive to provide the very best in care and service and apologise if you feel this has not been the case. Thank you for taking the time to speak to me, it helps us to understand where you feel our service can be improved and we are always keen to embrace all concerns from a family.
  • 5 Richard Deadman 22nd Nov 2022

    From start to finish of my dads funeral and Cremation, Stibbards have been extremely professional and their online obituary service with donation facility is very helpful. I would highly recommend them.

    Lee Marston replied

    Dear Richard, thank you for taking the time to express your thanks for the service that we provided to you. I am pleased that you found our online services of use and felt looked after and supported.
  • 5 Neale Safaty 8th Nov 2022

    We interacted with two people at Stibbards,Martin,himself a Stibbard and Karen who dealt with customers at the Shoeburyness funeral home. Both were extremely sympathetic, compassionate and very professional. We were very impressed that Martin was able to visit our home on the day that I contacted them as my mother is very elderly and not particularly mobile.

    The business has been in the Stibbards family for generations and one got the impression that the outstanding service was because the firm is independent and very experienced.However,it is also very much a twenty first century organisation and the experience with the website,donations and streaming was also very good.

    Stibbards was recommended to us by more than one friend,we did not chance upon them with a google search. We will require funeral directors in the Southend area at some point in the future and most certainly will use them again. We felt that they went the extra mile with respect to advice and our requests. For example,at short notice, i.e.at the point that the hearse arrived at our home,Martin suggested and was able to organise streaming at the chapel, because my sister had fallen ill at the last minute and was unable to attend our father's service.

    Neale

    Martin Stibbards replied
    Dear Neale, thank you for your very kind words, it was so lovely to be able to look after yourself, Mum and the rest of the family and I am so pleased that we served you well. I wish you all the very best for the future. Martin
  • 5 Louise McIver 5th Nov 2022

    We were extremely pleased with all of the service from start to finish. The team are professional, compassionate and very approachable. Communication throughout was excellent 👌
    Thank you to the team.
    Louise McIver and Family xx

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Louise, we are so pleased to have been able to help you and the family through such a difficult time. Thank you for taking the time to comment on our service to you, it is much appreciated

  • 5 Jan Dipper 3rd Nov 2022

    We would like to take this opportunity to say thank you for all your help, care, kindness, compassion & support through this very sad, difficult time. Nothing was too much trouble throughout this procedure.

    The whole service on Wednesday was beautiful & immaculate from beginning to end, just like my Dad’s funeral 7 years ago (which you also did) & was delivered with professionalism, respect and dignity.

    Kind regards
    Jan, Jill & Carole ( Evelyn Stott's Daughters)

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Jan , Jill & Carole, thank you for your very generous comments which mean so much to all of us at Stibbards. As a family company we cherish the relationships that we build with our families and your kind comments will be shared with the team.
  • 5 John Jackson 21st Oct 2022

    My family and I could not have been more pleased with the way Stibbards looked after our Mum, 
    From the first meeting I had with Karen throughout the whole process, including Scott who directed Mums transfer from the funeral home to the service. 
    This is the first time I’ve had to arrange a funeral and it was stress free as far as the organisation was concerned.
    Hats off to all at Stibbards , and a special mention for Laura Manvell who took the service, even calling to ask if there was a particular colour dress we’d like her to wear . 
    You made what could have been a very distressing day ,into a celebration of my Mums life.
    Thank you .

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear John, Karen will be so pleased that you felt supported and cared for during the arrangements for your beloved Nan. We are so pleased that Scott and Laura were able
    to conduct the send-off she deserved, and this will hopefully bring you comfort in the future
  • 5 Nigel Salmon 2nd Oct 2022

    Karen, Scott and all those behind the scenes made sure that everything was perfect for Mums send off. Nothing was too much trouble and the level of service was exceptional, making the day one to remember, for all the right reasons.

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Nigel, thank you for your very generous comments which mean so much to all of us at Stibbards. As a family company we cherish the relationships that we build with our families and your kind comments will be shared with the team.
  • 5 Stuart Goodwin 1st Oct 2022

    I certainly chose the right Funeral Directors they were excellent. I cannot give them enough prise.

    On their booklet that I received it states “Care, compassion and support in all we do”  That is so true.

    From my first contact with them I could see that they cared and would support you through you sad loss.

    Compassion they related to my sad loss of my Wife and they could not do enough to help me,

    I cannot thank enough I know my late Wife would be proud of the care she received from them.

  • 5 Lynda Pilling 26th Sep 2022

    Myself and all of my son's family and friends, wish to extend our heartfelt thanks to Stibbards at Shoeburyness for their caring and compassionate service. Above all, their support has been paramount in helping us in our most difficult time.

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Lynda, we are so pleased to have been able to help you and the family through such a difficult time. Thank you for taking the time to comment on our service to you, it is much appreciated
  • 5 Trevor Hine 25th Sep 2022

    I was extremely happy with the service I received for my wife,staff were very professional,understanding and caring with attention to detail.

    Many Thanks.

    Trevor and Sean

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Trevor and Sean thank you for taking the time to express your thanks for the service that we provided to you. I am pleased that you felt looked after and supported.
  • 5 Andrew Belton 30th Aug 2022

    In all it was a lovely funeral but my mum paid for a funeral plan and I understand they have no control over 3rd party changes but we were shocked to have pay £253 for out of hours transfer from her home and into their care in all we had to pay £843.85 which we didn’t expect when she had paid for her funeral plan 

    Martin Stibbards replied
    Dear Andrew, thank you for your kind words regarding the services that we provided to you. I am sorry to see that there was a shortfall in the plan provided to you by a 3rd party provider. However I hope you understand that even with the additional fees paid at the time of arrangement, the plan that your Mother put in place represented good value. Although we have no control over 3rd party fees, the plan Mum thoughtfully put in place, saved the family over £1000 had the funeral been arranged at today's current funeral costs.
  • 5 Lesley Harvey 5th Aug 2022

    Stibbards is not just a service. It’s an experience. If you leave your loved one in Stibbards hands. You know your loved one will be treated like one of there own. They are exemplary in that field.
    I honestly do not think standards can be beaten. Andrew was so professional and friendly.  Very informative guided us every step of the way. My family were in awe of such a young man being so skilled in that field and so compassionate. Our drivers were fantastic and gave great attention to detail. They were very attentive. And really put us at ease. They explained everything every step of the way. We never felt rushed. It’s worth every penny to know your loved one is being treated with dignity and respect and shown person centred  care at all times. So a big Thank-you from my whole family we 💯  recommend your services. 

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Lesley, thank you for your very generous comments which mean so much to all of us at Stibbards. As a family company we cherish the relationships that we build with our families and your kind comments will be shared with the team.
  • 5 Alison Shenstone 29th Jul 2022

    It was a wonderful service and you did lee and all of his family and friends proud

    Thank you from us all

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Alison, thank you for your kind words, I will ensure they are shared with all concerned
  • 5 Steve Fountain 11th Jul 2022

    Everything that Stibbards did and everyone we dealt with were excellent. Although very professional they were very understanding and supportive too.
    Can’t praise or recommend them enough.

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Steve, we are so pleased to have been able to help you and the family through such a difficult time. Thank you for taking the time to comment on our service to you, it is much appreciated
  • 4 Paul Hughes 5th Jul 2022

    I have not got the energy to leave a review.

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Paul, we are always here to help in anyway we can, i hope have been able to look after and support you at this difficult time.
  • 5 Kim Murphy 2nd Jul 2022

    Very helpful and sympathetic. Well organised. Thank you.

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Kim,
    we are always here to help in anyway we can, we are so pleased have been able to look after and support you at this difficult time.
  • 5 Nick Hill 23rd Jun 2022

    From start to finish a thoroughly professional service with a personal touch. 

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Nick, we are always here to help in anyway we can, we are so pleased have been able to look after and support you at this difficult time.
  • 5 Julie Tempest 2nd May 2022

    Could not have asked for better help and support from beginning to end 

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Julie, thank you for taking the time to share your experience with us, we are so pleased to have been able to care for you all at such a difficult time
  • 5 Gary Lucas 18th Apr 2022

    Everyone at Stibbards were extremely helpful and understanding of our families needs and requests, nothing was to much trouble for them.

    Lee Marston replied
    Dear Gary, on behalf of the whole team at Stibbards, I thank you for your kind sentiments and we are so pleased that everything went so well for you.
  • 5 Kim Missen 12th Apr 2022

    5 star service received. Made a difficult time for the family very calming. Every member of Stibbards my family interacted with were absolutely brilliant. Cannot recommend Stibbards services any higher. A big thank you from the Missen family.

    Martin Stibbards replied
    Dear Kim, thank you for your very generous comments which mean so much to all of us at Stibbards. As a family company we cherish the relationships that we build with our families and your kind comments will be shared with the team.
  • 5 Lynne Irving 7th Mar 2022

    I am pleased to say Stibbards made this difficult time comforting,nothing was too much trouble for them,the staff were very professional but also friendly can’t fault their service .Thank you Stibbards Family.

    Martin Stibbards replied
    Dear Lynne, we are so pleased that you found our service to you and the family so comforting and professional, thank you for your kind words.

Address
74 Ness Road
Shoeburyness
Essex
SS3 9DG

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Opening Hours

Day Hours
Monday Open 24 hours
Tuesday Open 24 hours
Wednesday Open 24 hours
Thursday Open 24 hours
Friday Open 24 hours
Saturday Open 24 hours
Sunday Open 24 hours

Latest Verified Reviews

Tina Dalton 27th Feb 2023

Stibbards have been excellent from start to finish, taking care of everything and fulfilling all our requests in a very caring and supportive manner, whilst being highly professional at all times. 

Donna Saunders 25th Feb 2023

Such A beautiful send off. Everything Adam wanted and more. Totally recommend to friends and family. Will totally be back to do my own. Thank so much for your love and care.

Samantha Allen 29th Jan 2023

Karen has been a fantastic support through this difficult time . She helped planned a lovely funeral for my mum . She is very dedicated to making sure everything went to plan and the support i got from her was amazing . 

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